Some Days Are Harder Than Others
Today I’m seeing Suzy Cleator. Remember her? My oncologist. She went off to have a baby. Well she had a little girl and now she’s back. In the waiting room is a woman who is obviously having...
View ArticleTime Takes a Cigarette
Two years ago today my cousin Gaby died of cancer. In the three months between her diagnosis and her death she endured a great deal of pain and fear. Gaby faced her illness with courage. That is not to...
View ArticleStepping Through a Doorway
A long day is in prospect. I’m having the big scary bone scan. Sitting on the bus I notice that I have forgotten to wear the opal ring that Miranda gave me for Christmas. I feel doomed. 9.30 – Princess...
View ArticleA Man’s Perspective
When I was going through chemotherapy my boyfriend Nick was on the other side of the world. He watched helplessly from a distance as my hair fell out and I became physically ill. On Skype, he shared...
View ArticleA Letter to My Last Born
Eloise Hopkins wrote a letter that helped her to process some difficult emotions: There are no notes to refer to of that time. The emotions so raw and powerful they couldn’t bear analysis. Could be...
View ArticleAcceptance is the Key to Freedom
We were utterly blown away by Sim Warren’s unexpected news of remission. After she’d finished partying all night, we asked her to tell us a bit more about what happened: Last July I was told that the...
View ArticleGaby We Miss You
My beautiful cousin Gaby succumbed to cancer on the 17th of October 2008. She was a wonderful artist, funny, kind, clever and brave. Above all she was humane. I miss her every day. This tribute to Gaby...
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